Fair Fighting

During this time both of you must remain consistent in this approach,
the following steps must adhered to;

1. at the first sign of a fight both of you are responsible to yell
stop and you both must stop.

2. both of you figure out a reasonable time to continue the fight and
set an appointment with each other.

3. when you get together to fight you must set a time limit and when
the time is up you MUST quit the fight or set a new time to further the
fight, again setting a time limit and following the other rules.

4. when you fight the past cannot be brought up, you cannot call each
other disparaging names or use put downs.

5. When the fight is over you both get up and walk away from the fight
signifying that it is over and move on.

6. PLEASE TREAT EACH OTHER WITH RESPECT AND IT IS OK TO LAUGH TOGETHER.


Robert J. Heard, MA, BCETS

posted by Robert Heard at 11:29 AM