Bill Ferguson's Relationship Seminars

Bill Ferguson's Relationship Seminars: "You can have love in every relationship and in every aspect of life.

If you can’t be at peace with the truth of the way someone is, your relationship won’t have a chance.

My wife and I have a black and white cat. No matter how much I want that cat to bark, it isn’t going to. I can yell at the cat. I can get upset at the cat and I can lecture the cat. But no matter what I do, that cat sill isn’t going to bark.
If you have a relationship that isn’t working, you have a cat that isn’t barking – and you are fighting it.

That person is the way he or she is whether you like it or not. Your feelings are totally irrelevant. That person is still the way he or she is.

If you can’t be at peace with the truth of the way someone is, you are guaranteed to destroy love and sabotage your relationship.


There are 5 very destructive things that happen when you fight the truth:


1. You get upset.

Instantly, you close down inside. You lose your ability to see clearly and become very negative. All you can do is fight, resist, hang on or withdraw. This then makes your situation worse.

Fortunately, upsets are not caused by what happens. They are caused by fighting and resisting what happens.

To see this in your life, find a time when you were upset. Now notice w"

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posted by Robert Heard at 2:29 PM