Make Sex Your Priority

Make Your Marriage Sex
Passionate, Wild and Fun

Can marriage sex be erotic, exciting, loving and intimate?

Read on... making love to your husband or wife will never be the same again!

Guaranteed!

In the beginning, marriage sex was outrageous and passionate.

In those moments when you weren't ripping each other's clothes off, you replayed in your mind the sex of that morning, the sheer force of your orgasm, the words s/he spoke over lunch or in bed, and the subtle looks your lover passed your way.

You daydreamed about your lover's naked body and the sex that you will have that evening. Your heart pumped faster, your breathing became shallow and you felt that pleasant warm tingle between your legs. In the beginning, sex took over your body and your mind.

But as time goes by, marriage sex changes. Your sex-intoxicated mind gradually sobers up and returns to work, responsibility and the other aspects of your marriage and life in general. And soon enough those last, hazy bits and pieces of your drunken-self straighten up and soon you realize that you know each other so well. You can predict his every move and he can predict yours.

Yawn. And then it's time to relight the fire and bring passion and excitement back into your bedroom.

Oops! Did We Say Bedroom?

Be adventurous! The bedroom isn't the only place where you can date your husband or wife.

One of the best ways to make routine marriage sex a little more wild and exciting is to change the atmosphere.

If you aren't into having sex in the park or on the subway, there is an easy solution. Just by getting out of the bedroom, you add an element of excitement to marriage sex. Making love on the kitchen table or on the living room carpet is safe, clean, private, and oh so passionate.

As part of our research (professional and personal) into marriage sex, we read tons of books, e-books and special reports.

Here are our favorites. Our top 5 best lovemaking e-books - each guaranteed to improve tremendously your marriage sex:

The Art of Lovemaking - yes - this is absolutely the best.
It takes you through 52 weekly dates for fun, playfulness and... sex, of course. Lots of new ideas - that would make the both of you VERY HOT and ... very giggly...
Check it out - it has 100% money-back-guarantee! so you have nothing to lose and a whole lot to gain.
100 Great Sex Games For Couples - bring back the fun and playfulness into the bedroom. A must have for any couple.
Killer Orgasms - the sales letter is a bit over-the-top, but the book contains valuable tips and tricks. We were surprised how much there's more to learn, when you're willing to experiment.
Recommended!
G-Spot Orgasm Technique - a whole book focused on getting a... g-spot orgasm... If you ever wondered where is this g-spot or how can you touch it the best to bring her to ecstasy - here is your answer.
Orgasmology - more than a book about giving her orgasm... also photos and videos. When you want to make your wife really happy - that's for you. You can learn some great stuff without letting her know - and just suprise her... She'll let you know that it worked...
Let's Talk About Sex

Do you find it awkward, embarrassing or difficult to talk with your husband or wife about what feels good in sex, what feels great and what feels out of this world? Part of learning about the wonderful act of sex is finding out what feels best to you.

This requires that both of you take time and to touch and carress all parts of each other's body while sharing with each other your experience. Your goal is to find what sensitive areas of your body help you enjoy sex the most.

Sexual fears, taboos and attitudes as well as withheld negative feelings and secrets choke off spontaneity, energy and pleasure in marriage sex. Sharing sexual fears and sex secrets as well as sexual peak experiences and sexual fantasies is a powerful way to deepen the intimacy in your relationship and boost the passion meter in your marriage.

We have created a special page for you where you can talk about sex - ask questions, share insecurities and fantasies, as well as help others with their questions, fears and secrets.
Check out our Let's Talk About Marriage Sex Page...

And WITH your husband or wife - here is a simple, yet powerful, communication exercise that will free your sexual energy and promote trust and intimacy.

Break the Rules and Have Fun Doing It

Try a little spontaneity. Instead of making love only at night after the kids are in bed, seduce your husband or wife when the urge strikes. Flirt with your partner in public. Showing him/her that s/he is desirable will feed the flames and send you two running for the bedroom.

Put a sexy note (a description of your favorite fantasy) in your partner's briefcase or car. Call your husband or wife at work during a lunch break (or send him/her an e-mail) and tell him/her exactly what you want to do to him/her after work - and DO it later.

Make love just before you are expecting company. The urgency of the sex and the forbidden secret will keep you hot for a week.

Food can lead up to lovemaking, but why not eat after sex? That way your stomach isn't full, and you won't fall asleep right after sex because you'll both be hungry. Actually, you could also take a lovemaking break between the main course and dessert. There are things you can't do in a restaurant...

And how about dance sexily for your husband...? These are excellent videos to teach you just that. Our recommended for the best marriage sex dancing is: "Lap Dancing & Entertaining Your Man, vol 4"

Masturbate in front of your lover without letting him/her touch you. Getting turned on together will raise desire to dizzying heights.

Variations on a Theme

Like ice cream, sexual pleasure comes in an amazing range of flavors - and everyone has a favorite. But your marriage sex suffers when you insist on always going back for more of the same.

Just varying your marriage sex routine in simple ways is enough to excite you and your partner into passionate lovemaking. Actually, simple variations on a familiar theme seem to be the simplest and most effective way to spice your marriage sex life.

Dressing yourself in seductive lingerie to look and feel sexy is a simple way to light a fire under your love life.
Check out this online shop for sexy lingerie - this is where we buy all our sexy stuff... They are really good!

Changing positions is another excellent way to increase your pleasure and to stir things up a bit. The Kama Sutra , or any other sex manual, can give you ideas for fresh new ways to get entangled with your lover.

Or, take a whole new approach to marriage sex. Learn more about Tantra - the art and magic of sexual ecstasy.

It's Not the Destination That Counts

Give each other long, slow, and sensual massage. Explore every inch of your partner's body with your fingertips. But refrain from having intercourse. Not confident about giving erotic massage? Learn everything you need to know to build a sexual tension that will wind you two up like steel springs for the next encounter...

Sharing fantasies with no obligation to act on them encourages creative erotic thinking, deepens understanding and intimacy, and helps you imagine each other in new sexual ways. The fantasy you develop together becomes your mutual mental foreplay for the next date. You'll get in the mood much faster simply because you'll have that hot fantasy ready to spark your libido.

For married couples in particular, sex without intercourse seems almost illegal, like the beginning of an affair. Learn more about making love (vs. having sex)...

Kinky Stuff

Kinkiness, ranging from slightly unusual to downright bizarre, is also one way to get your brain and genitals all fired up. Role playing, erotic talk, discussion of fantasy and striptease are sexy games that will transform any routine marriage sex into a hot, passionate love affair.

If you like the idea of these kinky games, but have never been a real dramatic type, you can ease into it by wearing sexy clothes/lingerie that you wouldn't normally wear. Sexy music might also help you to let down your hair and get into the game. Try a red light bulb to add some exotica to your bedroom. And most importantly, laughing and joking about it will make it easier, without taking the sexy punch out of it. Teasing and playing is a great way to keep your marriage sex alive.

And Most Important...
Make Sex Your Priority

Make time for sex - busy as you may be, make lovemaking a top priority in your marriage.
Preferably, increase the frequency of your sexual encounters. Studies show that lovemaking elevates the levels of brain chemicals associated with desire. So the best way to increase your hunger for sex is to have sex...

Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex*

Our Marriage Sex Advice Column gives the answer to every sex question you ever wanted to know, and some you wouldn't think to ask. Did you know, for example, that porno stars are not as gifted as they look? It's the camera that adds a couple of inches to a normal penis. We'd love to tell you how to perform the "Piercing Tiger", how 20 minutes of belly laughter enhances your ability to reach orgasm and will Viagra really improve your marriage sex...?

And Last But Not Least...

Don't forget our ultimate solution: The Art of Lovemaking .
This e-book will definitely put the spark back in your marriage!
Save your marriage today with the Art of Lovemaking!

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posted by Robert Heard at 7:50 AM