Is Your Marriage Becoming Sexless - Is it Time to Walk Away?

Is Your Marriage Becoming Sexless - Is it Time to Walk Away?

By Kelly Rafferty

If your marriage is becoming sexless you may think that it's time to walk away, but have you really tried to find a solution or are you just looking for an excuse to end the marriage? Married couples go through problems every day but they don't lead to divorce, if the lack of sex is making you think about divorcing your partner ask yourself a question "how shallow are you?" if your whole reason for marriage was for sex instead of love then maybe you should get out, couples who marry for love will stand and fight, no matter what the problem is.

The divorce rate for couples in a sexless marriage has doubled in the last 10 years, this is completely down to the lack of help available, I mean help which doesn't cost thousands and thousands of dollars with a therapist. That help is now available, if you truly love your partner you will make use of any help you can find.

The reasons behind a sexless marriage don't have to be huge; they really can be as simple as not making time available for cuddling, holding hands or talking. A lot of the problems are due to commitments to work or family, these can't be ignored but they can be rearranged to give you both time together.

Many people seem to think that a sexless marriage is all about a decreased or non existent sex drive, this isn't normally the case. The people in these relationships still have a sex drive but they just have reasons for not using it.

Many people who are faced with a sexless relationship choose to sit back and switch off from the marriage completely, others choose to have an affair, having an affair will make your partner worse and also end your marriage. You have taken steps to seek help so it's down to you to re-introduce sex into the relationship once you have found and fixed the problems which started all of this.

Sex isn't just about the act of penetration it's about the intimate connection between you both, the better the sex is, the better mood you're both in. when sex is taken away or very limited you should really see a problem which needs addressing.

If you can see your marriage becoming sexless, you need to do something to fix it, there's no use putting the blame on your partner or beating yourself up about it, you just need to resolve the problem and get back on with your lives.

You have recognized that there is a problem so you're well on the way to dong something about it.

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posted by Robert Heard at 8:50 AM